On Living Where Discrimination, After Marriage, is Still Legal Shanté: When I think about what happened that night and how fortunate we were to have positive responses all night and into the morning, I’m humbled. Then for us to be two young, black, queer women, getting married- the first ones- that was beyond unlikely. Well, on Monday we'll just go by the courthouse and get married before work, and then see you later.'īut then it became a thing, because same-sex marriage being legalized in Alabama, before the Supreme Court made a decision- that was unlikely. Tori: On January 25th, when Judge Callie Granade made the decision that she was lifting the ban on same-sex marriage in Alabama, it was kind of like, 'Whoa. On Being the First Same-Sex Couple to be Married In Alabama Shops & Catering show submenu for Shops & Catering.